Whole Wheat Chocolate Chip Cookies

Saturday, April 18, 2015

    I think I have a problem.

   I have created monsters out of my children. Cookie monsters that is.

I have always loved chocolate and sweets of any kind but mostly chocolate! Breakfast, lunch or dinner; I will find a way to sneak some sugar in. What I didn't realize is that while I was indulging my sweet tooth; my children were taking note. Why do they have imitate everything we do?!

Now after every meal they ask for dessert. 

What have I done?!

Since the damage is already done I am making them these chocolate cookies, with whole wheat of course! In my opinion they are way better this way!

They are crispy on the outside but ooey, gooey and chocolatey on the inside. Perfect for dunking, munching and devouring! Oh and the cookie dough is so good you might not even get to baking them, but you should.

I usually eyeball it when making these but decided to measure this time so I could share this goodness with you. Yeah, I'm considerate like that.

I have been trying to convince my kids and myself that sweets and treats are better when we have them in proportion and save them for special occasions but we just aren't buying it and how would they have those very important memories of licking the bowl and mixers?

So we are are making  up reasons to celebrate; which isn't hard around here. Today my excuse  is that it's the weekend, my husband is home and the kids are all being quiet right now! Good enough for me.

If you need a sweet fix today go ahead and make these updated classic cookies. If you eat more than you can count, remember they are made with whole wheat. Anything with whole wheat is better for you, right? Right!

If my kids are looking for me, I'll be in my room with the door locked stealing a moment of silence while satisfying my sweet tooth!

Whole Wheat Chocolate Chip Cookies
Makes about 25-30 cookies
Set oven for 350

2 sticks of softened butter or 1 cup  ( you could also substitute the butter for coconut oil)
2 eggs
2 tsp. vanilla
3 cups of whole wheat flour ( I use soft white wheat that I mill) but you can find unbleached white whole wheat in store
3/4 c.  white sugar
3/4 c. brown sugar
1 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. baking powder
2c.  semi-sweet or bittersweet chocolate chips.

1. With a hand mixer combine butter and sugars and then add eggs and vanilla. In a separate bowl mix together dry ingredients.   Add to wet ingredients. Once combined add chocolate chips.

2. Bake for 10-12 minutes. Or when golden brown. You want them to be a little soft still as they will harden as they cool.

3. Cool on wire rack. Serve with milk  if desired and enjoy!

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Finding the fun in homeschooling:Guest post on "My Joy Filled Life"

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Let's be honest. School does not always conjure up thoughts of fun for students or teachers. Whether you homeschool, send your kids to private or public school it can be a huge burden trying to give your children what you feel is the best education for them.

Since my husband and I have felt led to homeschool our children, it has been a rocky road of trials and triumphs. I am slowly learning to let go of the pressure I put on myself and just enjoy this time I have with my children of exploration and education. Why not make it fun, memorable and exciting? The choice is up to us as their parents and teachers; at home and in the daily lessons of life.

If you have been struggling as I have; join me on my journey to make school and learning fun!

Read more here!

These are the good old days

Monday, April 13, 2015

Life has been pretty crazy these days. Homeschooling, cleaning, and feeding my 5 kids (not to mention taking care of my husband and I's needs) has been all consuming. Add on top of that all the other aspects of life that pop up and you can stick a fork in me and call me done!

 All day long I look forward to when all the kids are asleep and my husband and I can have some time to ourselves in peace and quiet, but in reality even that rarely happens.

Just when we are about to heave a sigh of relief, get out the ice cream and turn our favorite adult program on; the baby wakes up not willing to be consoled and in turn wakes up Simeon our 3 year old. When you live in a 750 sq.ft. house with 7 people there is always going to be someone within close proximity; therefore the noise level is amplified x10! So yeah...someone is always awake.

I often get frustrated that all I do is referee fights, clean up messes, feed bottomless pits, fight for sleep, do loads of laundry and try to teach distracted students all the while keeping the baby from breaking his neck and destroying everything in our home as he has a tendency to be found on top of tables throwing whatever is on them on the floor. Phew! Can you say run on sentence?!

I pry myself from the constant neediness of my home when my husband can take over and literally run out of the house just so I can have some time to myself to think, exercise and pray!

I often find myself saying, "When the kids get older I will do this and this and that." All the things that I am not able to do now. But even in the midst of the sleepless nights, the never ending hunger, the continual messes and the constant crying and whining(there is always someone crying, myself included) my husband and I remind each other over and over again that we will look back on these days and miss them...yes miss them.

I don't think we'll miss the sleepless nights and cleaning up puke but nonetheless we will miss these precious crazy days where we were stretched beyond our abilities, wanted non stop, deprived of sleep and quiet...and filled with overflowing love, laughter and joy!

So even though someday I might be able to take those music and art lessons, exercise 5x a week, sleep deeply, read my Bible in peace, think in quiet, be able to simply go the bathroom without having someone screaming at me or trying to come in, have all the time I want alone with my husband, travel, hang out with friends,blog whenever I want, eat without someone climbing on top of me and eating all my food; I know my husband and I will reminisce and wish we were back in  "these good old days."

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Because even though I look forward to watching my children grow and change in the new seasons to come; I am going to miss these days of sweet snuggles, chunky rolls, dance parties, super dogs, nature walks, fighting over who gets the last of the cookie dough, fort building, double strollers, sensitive feelings, lizards, playing dress up, races, mischievous looks, piggy back rides, dangerous silences, innocence, tree climbing, tears falling because of something totally ridiculous and mending of broken hearts with a treat or a kiss.

Sometimes a quote from "The Office" is very appropriate;)

"I wish there was a way to know you were in the good old days before you've actually left them"- Andy Bernard ( The Office)

Me too Andy...me too.

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Hope and tips for the mom who is tired of cleaning

Monday, April 6, 2015

When my house is a mess it's hard for me to think clearly; which probably explains why I am in a fog most days. It's like all the legos, laundry, dishes and dirt are clogging up my brain; leaving me feeling frazzled and irritable.

Though I try to stay on top of keeping the house clean, life with 5 kids (9-15mo) means there are bound to be messes no matter how hard I try to keep the dirt and clutter under control. Some weeks are busier than others and when we are in and out of the house the messes are being made faster than I can clean them up.

Most days I get depressed thinking how often I have to clean and how little I have to show for it. Since we homeschool I feel like I am in a perpetual state of cleaning. If you're a mom with little or big kids at home or in school; I am sure you can emphathize with my venting.

I love tackling a project and looking at my work with pride and satisfaction at a job completed and well done; it does my heart good. Though I might not want to admit it, I really do like to clean...just not all day!!! Cleaning...it's a job that is never done, and that is my dilemma.

 I have reluctantly had to come to terms with the fact that this is how it is; there is no way getting around it, things are going to get dirty again no matter how hard I clean. It's a hard pill to swallow.

But the thing is, I really do love taking care of my family and home and I want to be faithful as a mother and a housewife. If you are at all like me I am sure you do too. The reality is, it's not always easy or pretty. We sometimes lose our motivation and way under the neverending loads of laundry and piles of dirt.

So how do we find hope in keeping up with our home when there is no end in sight?

I have not found the secret answer to this mystery but I have found hope and comfort in knowing what God has called me to do and asking him to give me the grace and strength to do it. This is what his word says,

"And let us not grow weary of doing good for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." -Galatians 6:9 ESV

Taking care of a family and home is a big job; a good job that needs to be done. One day we will reap the rewards of all the hard work and time we have put in but now we have to continue to be faithful in the trenches; in the season we are in. We can't give up!

 If God is able to meet all our needs, surely he will give us the strength to meet our family's needs. Cleaning can be mundane, messy and dirty but it has to be done, so we might as well start having a better attitude about it and start getting strategic in what seems like a losing battle at times.

Here is what I have found that has helped me: (disclaimer: I am by no means a cleaning expert, I am just an ordinary mom trying to do my job well and with joy)

1.Focus on what you have to be thankful for

I find that if I focus on being thankful that I have a home, children and a husband to clean for, I am less inclined to be disgruntled and my tasks become easier and even a joy. When I think about the neverending messes my family makes it only leads me into a downward spiral of complaining and discontentment.

Before I met my husband I dreamed of doing his laundry and cooking for him. Before we had children I dreamed of washing little baby clothes and cooking for them; of course I didn't realize how many dirty clothes and dishes they would make but nonetheless I am so thankful for the privilege I have of being able to meet their very practical needs while living out my dreams.

What can you focus on that will help you to overlook the messes and see the blessings?


So many times I complain that I can't clean up after everyone else yet often I find myself picking up mess after mess because I think it will be easier then taking the effort to get them to do it. But in reality I'm only making more work for myself. It will take some doing, but if you train your children to pick up after themselves you will eventually reap the rewards.( My two older boys are such a big help now. I'm still working on the younger ones)

Don't fool yourself into thinking that it will be easier to do it yourself. It might at the time but you will pay for it later. Be creative, make it a game or a race, offer rewards or even bribery, clean with them. Whatever you find that works for you, just get your kids involved! And don't forget to be consistent and patient...ahem. If my kids think they can get me to budge an inch, they will take a mile and soon I will be doing their chores.

What can you delegate that you have been doing yourself?

3.Set Boundaries

~Keep food and drinks in the kitchen
Messes and spills are going to happen but if you can minimize them, then by whatever means possible, do it! We have a rule in our house that there is no eating or drinking outside of the kitchen(mommy and daddy excluded). This not only saves my sanity but my floors and couch as well.

~Take off shoes before entering the house
When I first implemented this rule, my husband declared that he was not Russian or Chinese and  therefore was not going to take off his shoes in his own house. After many muddy tracks, ruined rugs and some persistent reasoning on my part I finally won him and the kids over. ( we can learn a lot from other country's custums) You might not have the problem of tracking in dirt and mud where you live but our yard is pretty much dirt, so it's a very necessary for our family. My kids know when their shoes are dirty and have gotten very good at taking them off. I do give a free pass to those with clean soles though;)

What boundaries could you set that would make life a little easier for you?


Everyone has different needs and priorities for their families. Don't think that just because so and so sweeps, mops and vacuums her floors every day that you have to do the same or that if what's her name's house is spotless all the time something must be wrong with you.

Choose to tackle those problems that need your most immediate attention and don't worry about keeping up with Better Homes and Garden's, Martha Stewart,  or all the "picture perfect" blog homes. The reality is, that having the picture perfect home is not what is important; creating an environment where love, joy, and peace dwells, is. I find that if I am able to keep on top of my household priorities it is much more conducive to my family and I living in harmony and my brain being able to function.

My cleaning priorities for my home are:
~Staying on top of the dishes and countertops
~Making sure the kids clean up after their messes and do their chores
~Keeping the living room decluttered
~Sweeping as needed
~Mopping as needed
~Cleaning the bathroom as needed
~Putting a load of clothes in the washing machine before the hamper overflows.

Here is my list of essential natural cleaning tools that I always have on hand to fight the germs and dirt.

This is what helps me keep my home functional most days. Of course there are always those days where nothing gets done or goes as planned as I like, but it always helps to remember what I need to focus on to get things back in order.

Find out what you need to prioritize and if you focus on those needs it will be easier to keep from getting overwhelmed and frustrated.

5.Know when to take a break

I easily get overwhelmed when everything piles up but sometimes I have to turn off my need to keep things clean so that I don't miss out on the important things in life like family gatherings, church, fellowship and the kids sports games...etc...etc. Because there will always be messes to clean up.

Sometimes when we are having an unusually hard and messy day I will take everyone out of the house to get a breather. I find I can better face the mess that awaits me when I clear my head, reevaluate the situation and come up with a battle plan.

The best case scenario is when my husband can take the kids out of the house for a couple hours to let me clean in peace and quiet. It's amazing how much I can get done in such a short amount of time when I don't have all the kids running around crazy undoing all my hard work. I feel like I can face the messes to come when I am able to start with a clean slate. If you are able to find a willing soul to help lift your load, take advantage of them and make it happen! If your husband isn't able or you don't have family near by; get a babysitter or exchange babysitting with a friend.

So when you feel like you might be starting to lose it, take a break from cleaning; your family and your frame of mind will thank you.

6.Give yourself grace

Know that there are going to be times when your house is not going to be as clean as you would normally like...give yourself grace. When there is sickness in your family...give yourself grace. If you homeschool and you are busy with school most of the day...give yourself grace. If you work out of home...give yourself grace. If you have little ones that get into everything and make a mess out of anything...give yourself grace. When a crisis arises...ask God for grace. God is so gracious with us in our weaknesses, we need to receive the free gift of grace that he offers to us daily and know that is enough!

"But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." 2 Corinthians 12:9

He knows we get tired, weary and weak...the perfect vessels for displaying his power!

How have you found hope in the neverending battle of messes and dirt?

Do you have any tips that have helped you survive?

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